You know that version of ourselves, a.k.a. Ego,
that we personally deny the existence of,
BUT love to recognise in everyone else?
Unless we acknowledge, learn from, and consciously nurture a healthy relationship with Ego, our "un-evictable cohabitee", we will remain in the cheap seats of a self-directed shit-show called: "Poor you, life sucks, but you're not to blame!"
I wanna recognise my ego →
You're in the right place if...
You read books, used positive affirmations, listened to advice, followed the fail-safe strategies, but nothing has helped you improve your self-worthiness or lessen your self-doubt. Something is seriously wrong with you - you fail a lot more than you actually succeed.
You get emotional and feel guilty with every random there-must-be-more-to-life thought. Yes, you're grateful, but unfulfilled. You're damn good at keeping up the life-is-so-bloody-awesome facade, but also fed up with playing pretend with all the superficial bullshit that surrounds you.
Your lack of control over people and external factors leaves you feeling stuck and doomed to watch the world around you go to shit! You would be so much better off if you could control outcomes and change people. The control freak in you is suffering terribly.
You don't have the physical body nor the intimate relationship you wish for, and get quite depressed and rather jealous whenever you see happy, good-looking couples with kids. You are ashamed of sexual intimacy and have a love-to-hate relationship with your mirror image.
Everyone loves what you do for them, yet they fail to see your exhaustion and neediness. Although appreciative, no one seems to care much about your personal desires. You're left feeling used and fearful of losing anyone should you stop doing what you do.
The world has gone bloody mad!
The trust we once had in the moral code and humane intentions of political leadership and the corporate puppeteers of the global economy is being shattered into a million little pieces. More often than not, our uncertain future hurls us into a state of overwhelm, desperation, and anxiety. We are left feeling frustrated, powerless, and enslaved to a life we no longer want, and with no idea of how to start thriving instead of just surviving.
Most of us embody the romantic tragedy
All the rom-com blah-blah and happy-ever-after fairytale bullshit seems to happen to everyone else, but not us. We long for sensual intimacy and deep, meaningful connections that will provide us with a safe space to be vulnerable and to feel understood. How we yearn for a sense of value and worthiness, yet no matter how hard re try, life remains unfulfilled and mediocre, and besides a ton of problems, we get served S.O.S. (same old shit) with nothing extra-ordinary nor exhilarating to brighten up our mundane existence.
There must be more to life, yet how do we go from constantly desiring to actually living that passion-filled, personal reality? How do we become the unashamedly sensual, emotionally connected, unconditionally loved, and boldly uncompromising person we yearn to be? Good bloody questions!
Which of the six scenarios below resonate most with you?
Getting along with everyone is a priority...
And very challenging at the same time, mainly because there are annoying individuals who happen to bring out your wanna-slap-your-face-so-badly version, and leave you feeling peeved and emotionally depleted. You can't tell them to get out of your face, deliberately lose your contact info, or take a very long hike in a faraway land without wifi because they happen to be family members or other people you just cannot avoid. You remain stuck between a rock and a hard place, while juggling your happiness and theirs.
You are surrounded by so many people...
But you feel like the loneliest person alive. Although quite likeable for most people, you feel unworthy of unconditional love and acceptance. Always the party person and great fun to be around, you're often noticed, but seldom understood. Most of your friendships are superficial and don't last too long. People often fade from your life after a certain period of time, which isn't a problem because more of the same kind come straight back in again. You seem to have "the" life, yet you feel empty and unseen, and tired of keeping up the girls-just-wanna-have-fun and this-has-gotta-be-a-good-life facade.
You have a bucket list of things you want to do...
But life's curve balls, grown-up responsibilities, and "your" people keep getting in the darn way. Your dreams, your visions, your aspirations, and your deepest desires are seldom understood, often diminished, and mostly criticised. Instead of support, you receive credible reasons validating why what you want isn't even a possibility. Sadly, you believe it all! As the years flash by, you grow tired of living the life you don't want, yet you continue to trust the opinions of others more than your very own. Your dreams remain dreams.
You're single and desperately looking...
You see people flirting, being chatted up, and experiencing close encounters of the best damn kind on a daily basis, yet you drag your lonesome body into an empty bed every "single" night. Pun intended! You have registered on all the free and payment plan dating apps, and could fill a book with your countless frogs-with-no-prince-potential blind dates. Your single-but-still-looking status is so depressing. Ok, so maybe not everyone is into happy-ever-after-with-only-you, but the brutal truth you struggle to face is that you can't even get steamy-hot-for-one-night-only, let alone let's-meet-on-repeat.
You are not very happy, but neither is anyone else around you...
Together, you eagerly feed each other's unhappiness and obvious bitterness with complaints about everything and judgement of everyone. This collective behaviour provides the valid, yet absolutely lame excuses you all need to stagnate and wallow in an inactive, mundane, and predictable life of blaming and shaming everyone else. The perpetual dissatisfaction and annoyance you experience has negatively impacted all aspects of your existence. You find comfort in the discomfort of living a mediocre, unlived life that is cheered on as the acceptable norm by your cronies in "crime" and members of the Frustration Addicts Fan Club.
You love being a mother and caring for people...
All your time and energy is dedicated to the well-being of others who need your help, and you seldom, if ever, take time out for yourself. Your appearance and physical condition blatantly reveal your lack of self-care and self-love. A borderline Helicopter Mum and potential control freak, you give your kids everything you never had and smother them in the process. Your friendships are plentiful, but superficial. Your marriage and partnership leave little to be desired with no hot-love nor wild-intimacy lost. In fact, you and your partner could easily pass as civil, friendly neighbours or BFFs living in the same household.
What if YOU discovered the unresolved pain within you...
...that creates or surrenders to the personal reality you don't want? Imagine the sense of empowerment you would feel if you were able to find the solutions to resolving that pain within you, too? You would then become an independent, unstoppable force of positive change and finally stop waiting for someone else to come and save you. You have never needed saving, you just never learnt how to connect to your emotional body.
Well, nothing wrong with that! The perpetual wishing, hoping, wanting, and dreaming without actionable steps serves a greater problem though. Yearning for a fulfilled, abundant lifestyle isn't equivalent to knowing how to achieve one. You try out all the proven strategies, you choose to educate yourself further, you rigidly follow all the pre-determined social codes, yet your countless efforts produce minimal results. Yeah, it totally sucks when your deepest desires never seem to materialise.
What most people fail to acknowledge is that everything they need to live a bloody awesome life is already available within themselves. The hardest work is in the extremely challenging and deeply emotional inner work. Through the strong attachment most people have to their external world, which is evident in their judgement, blaming, and shaming of everything and everyone, they remain disconnected from their authentic self, their true nature, and their untapped potential. Emotions withhold all the information we need to move forward - we just gotta stop trying to control them, start feeling them, and quietly listen to what it is they have to say.
What if all your emotional meltdowns were also your most invaluable resources?
In the most irritating
interactions with annoying individuals are priceless lessons & true desires.
The best approach
to understanding oneself & others is to reflect on emotional responses.
Most of our suffering
reveals our emotional attachment to past, unresolved experiences.
What we constantly judge
ultimately exposes our failure to truly see ourselves and others.
The most effective way
to heal emotional trauma is through humility & mindful awareness.
Our painful memories
reveal what we yearn for, value, and have not strived to achieve.
What if there was a way for you to help yourself by tapping into your emotional self?
Embrace your Ego versions & positively shift your personal realities
→ Discover the root cause & emotional meaning behind triggered re-actions.
→ Acknowledge unfulfilled expectations. Embrace & deepen all relationships.
→ Unravel your relationship to money/materialism & their effect on your personal reality.
→ Discover the positive lesson in everything emotionally negative and challenging.
→ Enhance your emotional and relationship skills by learning from your emotional meltdowns.
→ Unpack your emotional & social conditioning. Discern what serves you and what doesn’t.
→ Recognise how the false labels & definitions you adamantly cling to obstruct your success.
→ Understand your emotional needs from the judgement you give & the shame you feel.
And so much more...
Designed to help you help yourself from the inside out
Choose from three options:
1. UnMask Your Ego Versions
Complete Digitisation + 24/7 Access - Work on your own.
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3. Do nothing at all!
Continue with life as usual.
UnMask Your Ego Versions
Get through (not over or around) day-to-day conflicts and emotional meltdowns, and make sense of EVERYTHING that is happening to you and through you.
DIGITISED ONLINE EDUCATION + ONE-TIME PAYMENT
On a professional platform with 24/7 access. Upon purchase, you will receive 4 lessons from Module I. After 30 days, you will receive the complete course.
SIX MODULES + 28 LESSONS
All lessons are in video format with a total of 11½ hrs video footage. Besides the videos, you also have 28 extra, downloadable scripts and audios.
15 JOURNAL PROMPTS
A total of 109 questions in 15 downloadable questionnaires are designed to inspire self-reflection and enable a deeply personal connection to yourself.
PLUS 7 BONUSES
Hot Mess to Invincible: 10 steps to nurture a healthy relationship with your "un-evictable", life-long companion a.k.a. EGO.
Brand It!: 5 steps to define your ego versions and personality traits.
Relational Reflections: 13 steps to recognise your dysfunctional relationship skills and emotional skills that were unknowingly inherited from your family.
Purposeful Intent: 4 steps to discover more purpose and meaning in current realities.
Rewrite the Script: Relationship Playbook with 3 steps to re-design and re-create the fulfilling relationship you deserve.
Financial Revelations: 10 steps to reveal your deficiency mindset and expose your intimate relationship to money.
Emotional Sustenance: 13 steps to determine your mental, physical, and emotional nourishment, and unravel the origin, pattern, and pain behind your emotional eating.
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If you are dissatisfied, a refund within a 30-day period is guaranteed. Send proof of work to: [email protected]
UnMask Your Ego Versions is entirely digitised and offers you complete 24/7 access with a one-time payment. This offer allows you to work alone at your own pace and in your own time.
€397 ONE-TIME PAYMENT
When the will is there, but the money isn't!
Everyone deserves the opportunity to make a difference by BE-ing different. Any form of change requires introspection, reflection, contemplation, humility, surrender, and brutal honesty, which are rather difficult states to achieve all by oneself. Sometimes guidance and diverse perspectives are needed.
Be B.O.SS.Y. Self-Actualisation has THE BEST of everything that Kim.E and IsNotSo have to offer, namely: all the UnMask Your Ego Versions digitised content, all the Be. B.O.SS.Y. content presented in live sessions with Kim.E, plus an affordable monthly subscription.
Money should not be the excuse for anyone to be left behind.
Be B.O.SS.Y.
For the bold, audacious woman fed up with compromise, subordination, and self-denial, who wishes to triumph over the biggest obstacle standing in her way - HERSELF.
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UnMask Your Ego Versions - Emotional Evolution
Digitised Education | Drip Content | 24/7 Access | 6 Modules | 28 Lessons | 29 Videos + Audios & Scripts | 15 Journal Prompts | 7 Guidelines
Upon purchase, you will receive 4 lessons from Module I. After the 30-day money back guarantee period, you will receive 1 lesson every 2 weeks for 52 weeks. In this way, you will be able to work through the content and take the time needed to self-reflect and create the actionable steps you need to positively impact your life.
Be B.O.SS.Y. - Self-Actualisation
Drip Content | 24/7 Access | 8 Modules | 26 Live Sessions Presented by Kim.E + Recordings | Spread Over 52 Weeks
In twice monthly live sessions that alternate with UnMask Your Ego Versions drip content, Kim.E will present the Be B.O.SS.Y. material in 26 sessions over a period of 52 weeks.
Be B.O.SS.Y. CONTENT
The Be B.O.SS.Y. content presents numerous scientific, philosophical, and biological aspects of human nature. With tangible knowledge, we are able to conceptualise our physicality and understand and embrace what we consider to be physical, mental, and emotional weaknesses.
Module 1 - Reality Check: A philosophical view of our perceived reality
Module 2 - Deeper Dive: Seeing beyond the superficial exterior
Module 3 - Mind Blowing: About the brain and multiple intelligences
Module 4 - Mind Sculpting: Recognising social and emotional conditioning
Module 5 - Dual Perspectives: The duality of our human experience
Module 6 - Sublime Significance: Understanding the power of subliminal influences
Module 7 - Overpowering Convictions: The crippling effects of mindset and beliefs
Module 8 - Vision Alignment: We become what we perceive and vice versa
26 HOT-SEAT SESSIONS
After the presentation of the Be B.O.SS.Y. Self-Actualisation content, Kim.E will also offer hot-seat sessions, which will give vulnerable, ambitious individuals the opportunity to gain another perspective concerning a unique situation they may feel stuck in.
12-MONTH PAYMENT PLAN
For a whole year, weekly content, which includes UnMask Your Ego Versions drip content and two live sessions per month with Kim.E, will cost €33 per month over a period of 12 months. Please note, that after the initial 30-day money back guarantee period, it will not be possible to cancel this payment plan. You are obligated to pay all twelve payments in full. Such a plan provides those without the financial means with the opportunity to also benefit from self-actualisation education.
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If you are dissatisfied, a refund within a 30-day period is guaranteed. Send proof of work to: [email protected]
With the combination of UnMask Your Ego Versions & Be B.O.SS.Y. - you have affordable self-education with live sessions and a community that will help you seriously move the needle in your life every week for a whole year. Now if that doesn't sound like a damn good plan, then I dunno what does!
€33 per MONTH for 12 MONTHs
The “soul” culprit & provocateur behind the scenes
Meet the MIND, the VOICE, the WRITER, the CREATOR
The long journey to this very text has been arduous, the experiences have been many, and the challenges have been very real. Learning to embrace all my dark, my light, and my bloody ugly allowed me to step into countless vulnerable states.
Revealing my authentic self through my creative expression, my digital products, my blogs, my poetry, my voice, my videos, and my opinions have been the loneliest, the most intimidating, and at times, the most crippling steps I have ever had to take, but they have also been the most rewarding.
Albeit, the struggle, the tears, the dark f**king holes, and all the bloody hard work led me to you, for which I am truly grateful. I will not sell you my expertise, nor will I guarantee your success, but I will provide you with the opportunity to discover yourself, so that you can live a non-compromising, full life on your terms.
I AM NOT EVERYONE´S CUPPA TEA & NEITHER IS WHAT I CREATE
We shouldn´t waste each other's time nor money, so let's get straight to the point
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF...
→ You have a comfortable mindset
You like things the way they are and do not wish to change anything.
→ You have a rigid or fixed mindset
You reject everything that goes against what you assume to know.
→ You don't believe you have an ego
But you can already name a few people who have really big ones.
→ You do not believe you are the problem
You have damn good reasons why everything and everyone else is at fault.
→ You strive to be a good person by ignoring everything bad
You nurture the illusion of harmony by living in self-denial and ignorance.
POSITIVE CHIT-CHAT
